Your adoption journey
Adoption is an exciting, challenging and life-changing experience for parents and the children waiting for a permanent, loving and secure home. It’s a big decision and we are here to help you discover if it is right for you and to support you in your journey to extend your family.
The adoption process
To start your journey, we suggest you come along to one of our regular information events where you can meet adoption social workers and experienced adoptive parents who can talk you through the process, start to answer some of your questions and help you to consider your route to adoption. You can find an event here or contact us by phone or email.
Your route to adoption with us will be personal to you. We will make sure you are listened to and supported at all times and will ensure that you always have all the information that you need.
**** Covid 19 (coronavirus) update ****
At One Adoption we are following the Government’s guidance and adapted the way we provide our services to ensure that those interested in becoming adoptive parents are still able to proceed, and that our support services to existing adopters can continue.
This means starting the adoption journey looks a bit different at the moment.
Our information events are currently being held virtually over Zoom or MS Teams. Please see our events page for details of the next online information event in your region. If you are in South Yorkshire you can also request a one-to-one chat as an alternative to attending an event.
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We have split the adoption process into a number of steps to help you get a clearer view of what to expect.
Step 1 Information and Exploration
The first step is usually when you start reading and researching about adoption and talking with your family and friends. Then you would attend, or watch one of our information events, to find out more about the process, how you are assessed, the children and what support is offered.
If you attend an event you can ask our social workers and adoptive parents lots of questions.We can arrange this too if you watch the information event film. Afterwards if you are still interested in adopting, we will arrange an initial visit to talk to you at home (these are currently being carried out via video call). If after this ‘visit’ you are happy to proceed we will ask you to complete a Registration of Interest form.
Step 2 Registration and checks
Stage One starts when we receive your completed Registration of Interest form and have your consent to start the formal adoption process, which includes obtaining references and background checks. This stage should take no longer than two months.
Step 3 Preparation and training
While this is taking place you can start your preparation and training. Attending the adopter preparation training will help you understand more about adoption and help get you ready. At the end of this stage we will make a decision and let you know if you are suitable to continue with the process and move on to the next stage.
Step 4 Full assessment
Stage Two is an in-depth assessment, where a social worker will work with you and your family over a four-month period, assessing your strengths and discussing the sort of children you feel you could adopt, before presenting it in a report to the Adoption Panel. This is the point when you would be formally approved to adopt.
Step 5 Matching you with the right child
We will work with you to match you to a child locally or if necessary search across a wider area using a national database called Linkmaker. We will share detailed information with you about the child and further discussions with your social worker will help you decide if you wish to proceed. A detailed report will be presented to the adoption matching panel for a final recommendation.
Step 6 Introductions and placement
Once a match has been made, you will spend time getting to know your child with the support of your social worker and your child’s social workers. A series of visits to their foster family and visits to you lead up to your child moving in with you.
Step 7 Making it permanent
When everyone is satisfied that your child has settled into your family we will help you apply for an adoption order. This is submitted to the court and, once granted, you will to become your child’s legal parents.
The adoption panel
The panel is made up of a wide mix of people, and can include adoptive parents, adults who themselves have been adopted, birth parents, someone from the council, professionals from children’s services, health and legal teams, as well as members of the local public who aren’t involved in the adoption process but have a good understanding of children’s needs, such as teachers.
Members of the panel meet to consider your assessment report and decide whether you’re a suitable adopter. The adoption team will invite you to attend the panel meeting at which your assessment is being considered; it is your decision whether you attend, though most prospective adopters do. Your social worker will explain fully what happens at panel before you go and answer any questions you might have.
Panel members will want to ask you some questions to understand more about you, for example your motivations to adopt, what you have learnt during the process and what you can offer an adopted child. Your assessing social worker will be at the panel and will take part in the discussions. After the meeting, the panel will let you know what their recommendation is.
A week later, the Agency Decision Maker, after taking into account all the reports and the minutes of the panel meeting, will make the final decision and tell you on the same day whether or not you’ve been approved to adopt. The panel will write to you within a week to confirm their decision.
Ongoing support
Once you start your adoption journey with One Adoption, you will be welcomed into our adoption community and a wide range of support will be available to you, including peer mentors, workshops and training, support groups and social activities for parents and children. We can also offer specialist support to meet your family’s specific needs.
For further details about what support is on offer in your region please see:
Other routes to adoption
In addition to the adoption process outlined above there are a number of routes that people take when wishing to adopt a child, including Early Permanence Placement (EPP), also known as ‘fostering to adopt’. Read this page here.
If you wish to adopt:
- The child you are fostering - please contact your social worker
- Your partner’s child - please read this page here
- A child from overseas - please contact the Yorkshire Adoption Agency
To find out more, please download our Step-by-Step guide to adoption.
If you have any questions about starting the adoption process please do call our adoption advice lines to have a chat with one of our social workers.
We look forward to hearing from you.